Monday, 5 October 2015

Half birthday

It's mind-bending for me to acknowledge that today is Q's six month birthday.  As our whole little family (mom, dad, baby and dog) took a stroll yesterday afternoon, I couldn't help but reflect back to April 4th when I was walking those exact same streets trying fiercely to dislodge the baby who seemed to have set up permanent shop in my uterus.  While I haven't done regular monthly update posts, now seems a fitting time to have a look at how far we've come!

Stats: Weighs somewhere just north of 17 pounds (we'll find out for sure at his 6 month doctor's appointment next week), length around 27 inches at last check.

Nicknames:  Nothing super consistent, but some of the more interesting things I've heard come out of my own mouth are "Sweet Thang" and "Mr. Chub O'Cheeks".  Usually it's just more generic stuff like honey, sweetie, baby, or mister.

Eating:  Up until very recently, Q was exclusively breastfed.  Then, at his five month checkup, his doctor noted that he had slipped down a few percentiles in weight since his last visit.  His length was still on track, so she suggested that he was probably needing some more calories in the form of solids.  This made sense to me, since around that time he'd mastered rolling and was spending tons of time on the floor practicing that as well as bouncing around in his Jolly Jumper and exersaucer.  We had a brief scare when he broke out in a rash after only trying oatmeal and sweet potatoes, but it turned out to be a virus instead (bonus: first puke!) and after a brief hiatus from solids is now back at it.  So far he loves oatmeal (especially mixed with applesauce), sweet potato, pears and bananas, has a so-so relationship with peas and green beans, and wants avocado to go die in a fire.

WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS TO MEEEEEE

Sleeping:  Oh boy.  This will probably be the subject of its own post in a little while, but suffice it to say that things got pretty bad with night waking after I wrote this post, and we ended up revisiting sleep training.  Only this time there was no fucking around, we got serious about it and really stuck to it and...it worked!  Q now goes down generally without fussing around 7pm and sleeps until about 6:30am, with one or two wakings to feed.  I'm trying to get him down to just one night feeding (and hopefully soon none!) but if he does wake twice, the first one is usually around 10 or 11pm and I often haven't even gone to bed yet, so I consider it a sort of dreamfeed and don't mind getting up around 4am for another one.  Naps have remained pretty shitty, and in the last week or two went even further downhill as they dropped from his usual 30 minutes to often less than 20.  Which meant I was trying to put him down sometimes 4 times a day, and he was still barely getting 1.5 hours of daytime sleep.  So...we're in the midst of nap training as I write this.  Stay tuned.

Clothes:  Q just recently started fitting into his 6 month stuff, and can still do some of his 3-6 month things as well.  He's long and lean, so I often find pants or outfits with feet and legs are too big in the body or waist but too short in the length.  I know some moms get really sad and nostalgic about it, but I get a weird sense of satisfaction out of retiring smaller clothes and busting out the new stuff in a bigger size.  Like I've somehow accomplished something by helping this tiny human to grow.  Yeah I know, I'm odd.

Diapers:  Pampers size 3.  We've rotated between Swaddlers and Baby Dry depending on what's on sale.  I generally find them to be good although we've had a fair number of poop blowouts lately, probably due to some epic solid food craps.

Likes:  Q loves spending time in his Jolly Jumper and has just recently come around to the concept of bathtime.  He's also fascinated by his own penis, grabbing it every chance he gets (regardless of whether it happens to be covered in poop at the time).  He's spent entire baths with one hand on it like someone's coming to take it away from him.  Q also absolutely adores Buddy, laughing with glee whenever he watches one of us play fetch or tug-of-war with the dog.  For his part, Buddy seems to be coming around and will now give Q little licks and will even let him do some gentle exploratory petting (with close parental supervision, of course).

You taste like avocado.

Dislikes: Naps, avocado, being in the car too long, being left alone by mom for any period of time longer than 3.27 seconds.

Milestones:  Q has been hitting most of his physical milestones a bit ahead of schedule.  His head and neck strength was always good (we barely had to support his head at all apart from the early infant days) and he's been pretty chill about tummy time.  He started sitting unsupported a couple of weeks ago, although we still have to watch out for the occasional topple.  He's now working towards crawling, which freaks me the hell out as our house is not babyproofed.  He's really good at pushing up on his hands and moving from side to side or around in a circle to get at toys he wants, but whenever he tries to move forward he actually ends up pushing himself backwards instead, which leads to no end of frustrated crying.  He's gotten himself up on all fours and rocked a few times, but hasn't figured out coordinated limb movement yet and this generally ends in a faceplant.

Pride goeth before a fall

Communication-wise is where I think he may be a bit more behind.  He started cooing right on schedule, but still hasn't really graduated to babbling or consonant sounds.  He's a pretty quiet baby all around and doesn't make much noise at all, unless he's upset about something and even then his cry is pretty low-key.  I try to talk to him a lot and get some back and forth conversation going, but he just smiles at me and blows raspberries.  Surprisingly, I find if I leave him alone to be quiet is when he might start experimenting with sounds.  I'm trying not to stress about this too much, and he's quite social with people (always offering up big smiles), but obviously I'd love to her a random string of babble come out of his mouth sooner rather than later.  M's mom has reminded me more than once that daddy didn't really say much at all until age 2, so it's possible that the apple didn't fall far from the tree in the speech department.  Time will tell.

Illnesses:  So far in his short life, Q has had two head colds (the second was much worse than the first), and one mysterious virus resulting in a rash and a bout of vomiting.

Looking forward to:  Hallowe'en!  I have no idea what I'm going to dress Q up as but I can't wait.  M is away for three weeks in October/November, so rather than attempting life as a single mom Q and I are flying out east to stay with my family.  It'll be great for my parents to have a bit more extended time with him, and my niece is already looking forward to trick or treating with him.  She wants him to be Olaf to her Elsa.

Or I could just wear this giraffe hat.

14 comments:

  1. Ha! That's a great avocado face- Q is super adorable. If Izzy could eat avocado every day she would.

    I get satisfaction when Izzy moves up to new clothes as well. My wallet does not though.

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  2. Great to hear an update! We are currently at 41+3 and anxiously awaiting the kickoff. Really nice to hear your journey - thanks for sharing.

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  3. He's so super cute!! 6 months already?!! Time flies, doesn't it.

    I had to laugh at the "holds onto his penis like someone is going to take it away" comment. So many boy mamas have warned me of this... can't wait! Ha.

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  4. Ohhhh, sweet Q is such an adorable cutie! Time really does fly by so quickly (and so slowly at the same time). I love when my two graduate to the next clothing size as well. It's always fun to get to play dress up with new clothes :) As far as foods go, what I learned was that just because they don't like something the first 1-3 times doesn't mean they won't end up loving that food. Mine hated avocado at first too, but now they love it. Same thing with green beans and cottage cheese. I've got some great videos of them gagging on cottage cheese, but ironically they now L.O.V.E. it!

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  5. What a sweetie! You'll be chasing him around in no time. AJ went through the backwards crawling phase too, but much later. I am sure you will enjoy Halloween with your family: awesome memories will be made.

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  6. I love that giraffe hat! I wouldn't be too concerned about his speech at this stage, but I would warn against being like my cousins. By age 2, it was obvious to me that their son was speech delayed, but they kept hiding behind "boys take longer to talk" and I don't think it really hit them until their second son (2 years younger) started to surpass their first born. Now he's 5 and not in Kindergarden and finally getting the Occupational therapy that should have been started a long time ago

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  7. I was worried about Paloma's speech development too, but then I started noticing that she seems to focus on one skill at a time. So when she was learning to crawl, she didn't work on talking much. She eventually seemed to catch up though. Have fun at home!

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  8. Sleeping and eating are constant worries, although I've calmed down about sleeping since that seems to be going well. I still feel like he's too big (he's probably around the same size as Q, maybe a bit lighter and a bit shorter, but not by much), but what can I do? Let him scream with hunger pains to meet some imaginary goal post? Hopefully when he starts moving he'll drop a few percentiles. Q is adorable and that hat is the best. Agree with Jane, I'm sure it's fine, but trust your gut--I had a friend who's doctor poo-pooed her concerns about gross motor development, and it turns out he has some problems and now seeing an occupational therapist.

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  9. Love the update! Happy 6 months to the little man~!! <3

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  10. Aw, he's adorable! And send those avocados here ;) I don't think I've seen SB hate any food, often she's just not interested. Until suddenly she is, days or months later (bananas were considered boring until very recently).
    I admit I worry about her speech development too, despite rationally knowing we're still well in the range of normal. Soon enough they'll be five and asking endless chains of questions ;)

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  11. Happy half-birthday, Q! (a little late) He is so gosh darn adorable! I love shopping for Missy when it's time to move up to the next size, but there are some things that are just so cute I wish she could wear them forever! I also cracked up at Q holding his penis for dear life. Boys.

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  12. (: thanks for posting about the cutie!

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  13. We are the same person. Or have the same baby. J hates avocado. Though I don't really blame him, I do too. I cannot believe we are at 6 months! How did that even happen!?! Also...please share your sleep secrets. It's just getting worse and worse. I actually celebrated getting a stretch of 3 straight hours a few nights ago.

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  14. Happy half year birthday…a few months late!

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